Surviving the Fishbowl
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Letters to Pastor's Kids
Edited by Catharine Stewart
Pastors' kids have it hard, feeling the weight of undue expectations and the observing world around them.
In Surviving the Fishbowl, Catherine J. Stewart assembles an experienced group of authors to give advice for those feeling the pressure of life lived in the scrutinized house of a minister. With contributions from pastors and their wives, as well as from former pastors' kids, this book gives sage advice for those navigating difficult waters. Whether you are pastor's kid struggling to understanding your identity, dealing with troubling social pressures, or just wishing you could escape it all, read this book and see that these trying days are survivable and even attended with blessings you may not have considered before.
Table of Contents:
Foreword by David Strain
Part 1: Laying the Foundation
1. Identity Crisis: PK or Child of the King?--Jasmine Holmes
2. Expectations: Who Sets the Standard?--Megan Hill
3. Count Your Blessings: Enjoying the Benefits of Being a PK--Joel and Mary Beeke
4. Friendships: The Glorious Gift of Extended Family--Terry and Emily Johnson
5. Loving the Church: Pressing on Through Family Highs and Lows--Tom and Donna Ascol
Part 2: Sharks in the Bowl
6. Criticism: The Godly Response--Mike and Mae Milton
7. Loneliness: Choice or Inevitability?--Amanda Martin
8. Cultural Change: Adapting to New Surroundings--Carl and Catriona Trueman
9. Depression: The Dark Night of the Soul--Neil and Catherine Stewart
10. Rebel PK: The One that Got Away (Almost)--Ike Reeder
11. Financial Crisis: High Calling with a High Price--Daniel Wakefield
Endorsement
"Too often, the pastor's family lives with weighty and unarticulated open secrets. Dad has been called--summoned by God and confirmed by the congregation--to undershepherd a flock of sheep (and wolves), while the pastor's wife and children live under expectations shared by no other family in the church. PKs are born into a burden and a blessing that they did not choose but in God's providence was chosen for them. And under the spotlight, they confront the world, the flesh, and the devil. This excellent and balanced volume gives biblical words, categories, and concepts to these real burdens. Every chapter in this book is worth its weight. And every chapter unearths an important truth--when God calls a man to the office of teaching elder (pastor), He intends a blessing for each member of his family. God never overlooks the obedience of children. While that blessing may have sharp edges and lonely days, under the light of the gospel and the love of God, it bears fruit for the child, the church, and the world." -- Rosaria Butterfield, wife of Kent Butterfield, pastor of the First Reformed Presbyterian Church of Durham, North Carolina; and homeschooling mother and grandmother
Paperback, 168 pages, notes
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